Tuesday, August 5, 2014

Not Yours, But Everyone's Beauty.

  Well hello again! I hope everyone is doing as fabulous as I am^~^ I know, for me, the weeks feel like they are going WAY too fast. This summer has flown by, for sure. I'm not gonna lie, I'm pretty happy life has been going fast. Life is like going on a roller coaster with a blindfold on; you never really know where you're going next.
  I thought that I'd talk about something I see regularly on social media these days. I'll be scrolling through my social media accounts and come across so many people "judging" other people. When I say judging, I don't mean the dramatic, comparing yourself to others, actually caused by jealousy kind of judging. I'm talking about the stupid game type thing to see who has more "beauty".
  Seeing so many people playing this "judging" game makes me sick, honestly. So what you have here is guys and girls telling each other who has more "beauty" than the other; thus, putting down everyone else who is in this little "judging" game. They take one's external beauty and lay it out for everyone, even the people that don't know them, to judge. It's like asking who they think is ugly. How does this game sound to you? I think it sounds awful...Just sayin'.
  In response to all who play this horrifying game, you aren't making all these people's confidence go up. Society today always looks at the physical aspect of people. They tell so many people that they must look a certain way to be excepted. Truth is, no matter where you go you will be judged. You don't need to play this game to see if you're excepted or not. If you think about it, we are all judgmental. If you see someone dressed differently than you, usually you go off their appearance as to how their personality will be. I know, it's really hard not to. I also know that when people do that to me it hurts my feelings.
  I get really sensitive about my appearance. I don't like for people to judge me on how I look. It upsets me. I've learned to take the whole judging thing much better than I use to. A year or so back, I'd go home a just cry because someone commented on my appearance(baby, I know). My favorite comment was "hey, you've got a gap in your teeth." What am I supposed to say to that?! Thanks for letting me know? Like what? Let me step off my soap box real fast...Anyways. Back to what I was saying. As humans, we see someone dressed differently and go off that to tell what kind of person they are or if we want to hangout with them; although, we don't know two things about them.
  There are some really cool people that I've met that I feel awful for judging because they're stinkin' awesome sauce! The way people look doesn't mean anything. The things you hear about someone doesn't mean anything. Let's go on a adventure together to find out for ourselves who people really are. We're all sinners. Sins are equal. We are equal. Let's all try together to stop with the judgin' and start with the lovin'(; *Creepy smile* But seriously...
  The awesome part about different appearances is you never know what to expect about their personality. You can meet the meanest looking person and they could be the nicest person in the world. Their personalities can also change the attractiveness of the person. It's amazing what actually knowing a person can do! Here's to personalities! *Raises glass*

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